Wednesday, July 14, 2010


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EVAN ILIADIS-CHRIS BENNETTS and more Me voila! Back again!. 

We had a wonderful May and June here in Cannes, La Croisette  with its Palais  des festivals where gather la creme de la creme des artistes from all over the world, this year Michael Douglas and Oliver Stone were the masters of ceremonies, not only on stage distributing awards and Cesars, but throwing parties nightly, big, immense, with glamor and a touch of international level class. 

They went to the local TV  talk shows to remind us  that culture and art are a border-less community, true artists, care one ID only, the same for all, one that says "Citoyen du monde" that is, World's citizen.  Because if you come here with your yank Vietnam era culture and mentality, better stay home lol! This place is not for you... You are good only to join the Cagayan de Oro community!...  

Above is the Carlton hotel in Cannes, where the stars staying during the festival. That's where Mike Belter - the unlimited finance guy -  stayed when he visited me.

So, who cares about the sexpats in the Philippines? No one except Mike Farrell. Yes, Mike Farrell again. He wrote me to remind me that I am late in updating the site and he seems very concerned of what happened to me. You'll read his mail shortly, but before that,he send me a nice birthday announcement card that I feel so embarrassed  I did not reply, not even with a "happy 73 Mike!"

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Here is Mike's card. (Click on the image to enlarge it) Congratulations Mike! You have once again proven to be a genuine sexpat, a real leader of this group "the patriarch" as Paul Petrea calls you, by setting the tone as to how a sexpat should announce his birthday to his fellows. Bravo ! Bravo!
But no many replied though... I didn't see any enthusiasm from your groupies. Maybe because they were too busy counting the rat feces in the coffee beans?...

Looking at the image you sent me, I noticed that the most important is hiding under the blanket. I hope the picoy is  still sharp and operational and did not have the fate of your K-Bar, now a piece of valueless rusted metal...I hope, I really pray, is true!.. But the picture doesn't show also who's celebrating your BD with you. Is this your wife? You always talk about 5 children, but never about your wife. The only time we have read something is here. So what happened to the drama?
She probably dumped you... Who wants a smelly drunkard around... Not even Brad Hughes  lol!!

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Here is Mike's mail expressing his concern: 
It is true that the CdeO  Yahoo expat group is going from bad to worse lately, many are pissed off wasting their time reading about rat feces in the coffee beans that was going on for days. Boring, isn't it? They have nothing to discuss, they are bored to death, all of them are trapped in there (Phlpns)  and blame their countries for their exile and downgraded style of life instead of themselves. So, I'll do them a favor to give them something to read, something they'll  enjoy.


A few of this group, feeling the heat, in desperation on how to defeat this "little man" exposing them on a regular basis, they decided to call in someone thinking it will be a high caliber warrior, a good logistician, exposing psychopaths, sociopaths and all kinds of 'paths" that finds on his way unmasking his criminal activities in the Philippines.   

Damaging blogs? The only damages inflicted so far is to himself only, like this one, He closed  it down a few months later and went on hide, but he uploaded a bunch of new ones. Click here to see the newest  and a few others that I will post all the links later on.

Introducing Christopher Bennetts aka"Chris Bennetts".

Welcome to my Wall of Shame Chris! I hope you will be grateful for approving your request  to be introduced on this blog, hopefully helping you sell some "books" and porn video, even though it will be hard to find people  willing to put their credit card on line, but that's another topic that will be later with the next update.    
To my knowledge, he (Bennetts) has never lived in CdeO, but he's using the sexpat community there to open a new battlefield against me in retaliation to the exposure that promoted him to the most cruel pornographer pedophile the Philippines ever knew. But everything he's publishing is anonymous, with the exception of  3-4 posters all on my well documented wall of shame which is understandable what's the reason behind their madness. But, poor guys, they can't find dirt on me, so they limit the "discoveries" to unfounded and undocumented hearsays "bombshells"
I wasn't planning to waste my time responding or rebut their crap because:

1. Those who know me, they know I am a perfectly healthy person, never had hepatitis C or whatever and the only meds I was taking is to slow down the blood pressure, something that I obtained without for the last 14 months, by paying attention on my weight ( Lost 17 kilos and keep counting) taking healthy meals, - hey folks, we are in France! - plus a daily intensive exercise, something difficult to apply in the PI due to the humid climate, questionable quality  food that  send me twice in the hospital with severe food poisoning. 
 Here is a portion of a long mail sexpat Tom Mcallaster, a member of the CdeO group sent me in May 2006, that means almost  a year later after I left the Philippines. The mail in its entirety can be seen here

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So? Tom McAllaster? Who needs medications? Me or you?

2. Those who don't know me, they just don't care!.. Why they will bother to read about me?

3. Last and most important. Unlike Chris Bennetts, not a single Euro of my income  comes  from the internet. None! Nada! I am not selling "informative" misleading books, or buying links to increase the web traffic of my pages, (no ads are allowed in my sites) that might generates  a few dollars earning from Google that he, now bankrupt, need more than I do.

And that's the problem Chris Bennetts has. That no one cares about me, they  care more  about him, because he  asks  people to put their credit card on line to watch his barbaric porn videos   or buy rip-off books that tells others how to become rich while he's an admitted failure in business  incapable to pay child support to his ex wife, or in another book bearing his wedding picture on the cover and tells them how to find the ideal Filipina and be happy for ever. Bwahahaha!!!! Follow the example folks!...
More on that on the next update.

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But mails came from supporters insisting that I should answer these accusations. Many of them, provided me with valuable information, so there I am, I will respond just to a couple for the heck of making them happy and in short and direct to the point style. Then, i will move on, there is a lot coming, no time to respond the accusations...1- I left the Philippines in august 2005 the health problems been just part of the reason but mostly  to provide  a better education and future to my children.

2- I came back in June of 2007 and stayed 3 months . No one was waiting for me to sue me as Chris Bennetts trumpets on his blog for whatever reason, instead, the Rotary club and the Village aide Program were waiting for me with a Paul Harris Fellow  award for my contributions to Rotary projects. He also said that I was  stealing money from the Rotary. When was that? Any document? any signed statement  from anyone to support it?
My last meeting at the Rotary was August  2007, where I received-in addition to PHF award-a presidential recognition as shown below and dated August 2007. That was it! I came back in France a week later  and never joined the Rotary again. So, you mean to say that they rewarded me for stealing their money?

3- I went back last year, 2009  with my wife we decided, before go to Bohol, to explore the Luzon region and Borakay that I didn't know. By the third week of my trip, that was in Vegan, I had to interrupt my stay due to a call I received to appear to a hearing concerning  my retirement in litigation with the French administration for the past 3 years, that should I ignore it, the court will decide the case on the government's argumentation only.


And this one below. (Click on the image to enlarge it) or click here to see the complete original file

Chris Bennetts, You won't find any dirt on me other than the one you and your scumbag friends are inventing and throwing in. You have tried before and you failed. This time will be the same. You have not documented anything, your acquaintances - mostly criminals- haven't either.  How about you Sexpat Tom Macallaster? From 40 members in the Rotary Club of Tagbilaran, only you, another American and 2 Fil/Americans sided with the crooks Dave Collins and Derek Pyrah. Do you think the other 36 will believe your crap? Do you think your association with these sexpats and criminals goes to your advantage?                                         


Coming soon in a blog near you:
you never judge a book by its cover, but when you buy one, you want to know who the authors are. Come back in few days,  I will introduce them to you in depth, I'll  tell you who they are, what their books is all about.

Sunday, May 30, 2010

Am I an expat basher? unmasking the indecent sexpats (and some criminals) in CdeO and elsewhere in the Philippines?

Probably yes. But why they blame the exposure to me for that? They -CDO sexpats - are exposing one another among them, others do self exposing proud to be seen on the web. Does this remind you the heroes? I'm sure it does..They do it through discussion forums and blogs, just for the heck of impressing the gallery, be a friend, a girl friend, a boy friend, or for a lucrative purpose.  This, is the main source of information the authors of this blog are using: Their statements, their blogs and web sites,their photos, official government publications. Here is an example. The photo  above is taken from the CdeO expat yahoo group. Click here to see the original.  That's all the guy  (her husband) who put the picture on the group's  album had to show us about his wife? That's all his wife worth? Well, "Gary Martin" that's not second hand! Is the husband!...How old is she? And the husband?....
Is CDO the only place that this kind of foreigners flocking together? Not really. Manila, Cebu and to a certain extend Davao are ahead. So? why I am taking on CDO? Because no other expat community in  the Philippines provinces have united so many dumb, drunkards, pimps, sexpats of the third type, like those Filipinos are making fun of them with comments about their forums like:
"designed (the forum) primarily for the middle aged, Viet Nam War era overweight, white guy who is divorced from a middle aged, overweight, bitchy, white wife and has found, or hopes to find a hot and hungry Filipina! And then, to spend his days on some “paradise island” …I call this type of guy, a “Moby Dick” (great white whale). After Joe finds his ideal Chikka, the group’s members offer advice on how Joe can avoid being screwed out of his Yankee dollars!"   
Those who live close or know people living close, real insiders, have even more for us, the best source of comments and information being the now defunct Texkano forum. Justin Arledge, me Evan Iliadis  and Jerry Olson, 3 of us were facing an armada of angry sickos in that group just for being in disagreement with their extreme views and beliefs.

Justin, not only has been the most aggressive against the sickos, he did it with a class and style as you'll find very few in the boards having the writing skills, talent AND the guts to do it. A true American, like most of my US friends I have  here in Sophia Antipolis (Europe's Silicon Valley) where I live. Here is what he wrote in Gordy's group with the compliments of Texkano and others. Reader, please, forgive the profane language you are about to read, but in this kind of forum it was almost...mandatory(sic!) to use, otherwise you wouldn't blend with the ambiance as it was established by the owner Gordon Elletson aka Texkano.  As you'll never blend with the CDO expat group if you don't bring your wife to Spooks Valentines day for a show on the same stage where Spooks girls" are "performing"... like Gordon Elletson's wife on the photo left and many others members of  Daisy's Cline Philanthropic group have done.

Sat, 27 June, 2009 5:30:38

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I fuckin' love it when Justin gets it going.
gordy          dos 17dec07
My Web-page
http://gahig- - NEW PAGES 30Apr09

"None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free."
- Johann W. Von Goethe

My groups:

                                                       justin arledge wrote:
CDO has more dumb fucking expats than any other city in PI or at least the CDO crowd is the most vocal bunch of nitwitted fucking fairy boys on the net, Ron, Mike B, Mike2x, Bob, Edward Paul Micheal and few others are just dumb as fucking shit and I bet they sit around sucking each others fucking cocks because they sure seem like fucking feminine faggots. As if that aint bad enough allot of CDO dumb fucks like sitting online and posting false shit about stuff they dont understand, most ones doing that dumb shit are just English only nitwits who have been in pi a short vacation like time and think they know fucking everything. The funniest of these retards is some fellow that said there is no free birth controll because his wifes OGBYN said he doesbnt give free depo shots, dumb fucking bastard didn't even know to go to barangay health clinic, just talk out his fucking ass lolol. Many stupid fucks on that CDO group really especially Mike Belter the Beltching Bayot as that cock sucker acts as if he knows everything in PI and is a big shot yet the dumb fucking faggot has to go to Africa to earn a living LOLOL Really funny as fucking shit LOLOL 

--- In Right_Minded- Winged_Warriors@ yahoogroups. com, "justinarledge" wrote:


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that would be Belter.

I think he keeps Spooks open.

He can belt down the beer.

African hero. He's the one.
gordy          dos 17dec07
My Web-page
http://gahig- - NEW PAGES 30Apr09

Missing the days of the Hale-Bopp Comet
and the Heaven's Gaters.
"So many stupid people. So few comets"

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justinarledge wrote:

I think its Mike Belter LOLOL. In side profile pic appears young looking like maybe in mid 30's, brown hair that looks to be either short like possibly crew cut doesn't appear to be balding, is sitting by a girl but can see part of her head bout cant see her body though as the guys body it to big even when in side profile and girl in frontal profile. Cant tell guys height though is is sitting on a chair and a sturdy chair it must be.

The guy is huge though. In your pics when you first got there you was a big dude but this guy is at least times two the size you where before you lost allot of weight.


 In Right_Minded- Winged_Warriors@ yahoogroups. com, TexKano wrote:
> show the picture
> gordy dos 17dec07
> My Web-page
> http://gahig- - NEW PAGES 30Apr09
> Missing the days of the Hale-Bopp Comet
> and the Heaven's Gaters.
> "So many stupid people. So few comets"
> My groups:
> http://health. com/group/ half_in_AA- half_out_ of_AA/
> http://groups. group/Expats_ and_Pinoys_ of_Misamis_ Oriental/
> http://groups. group/Right_ Minded-Winged_ Warriors/ 

justinarledge wrote:
 My sock puppet just returned from CDO Expats and informed me that 
there where pics of the july 4 party at the local whore house up.  Anyway, One of the pics shows the fatest fucking white boy I ever  seen, shit the fuck could go to Japan and do Sumo wrestling if things  dont pan out in CDO. You would just have to see the fucker to believe  it as the fat ass is sitting with his belly up to what appears to be a  bar or a pub table yet his chair is about 3 to 4 feet away, I wonder  how the fat fuck can reach his beer from that distance. Anyway, No idea who the guy is but looks to be younger and with short hair, looks  to be cut in a crew cut but I may be mistaken as the pic just shows a  side profile. My god the fucker would have to way on livestock scales and probally 
 cant walk more than 100 yards at once with all the weight that fat ass  is carrying around, really a damn shame as guy doesnt look that old in the picture. I have no doubt why that fat fuck had to move to CDO, it  because he could get no pussy in America, shit no girl here desperate  enough to sex that fat fuck as he probably smells like shit as cant  reach his ass to watch it very well, plus hed squish the fucking girl. 
 Damn fuck couldn’t get laid in a whore house in America. Even in PI can 
  only imagine he dont get sex that much from his wife as even though 
she was desperate enough to marry that fat ass he prolly gotta rape  her for sex as no girl regardless how desperate could ever be 
attracted to such a fat fucker.



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Fellow potential ex-pat to the Philippines and particularly to Cagayan De Oro, you owe it to yourself to read these lines before you take the plunge. I am sure you have already evaluated advantages and disadvantages of your project by talking to people, reading the forums, probably you have visited already the country and you made up your mind, or you are about to.
But there is a truth very few in the expat community will share with you, fearing isolation and /or retaliation by a small fraction of foreigners living there some for many years. If this behavior is not an "exclusivity" to the city of CdeO, it is unfortunately a growing problem there. You have plenty to read right here on this blog, but I'll direct you to some one who knows more than I do because he's a known reporter, a Filipino "who understand things differently" because is his country, Click here to read about his Cagayan cybersex heaven 
In this article, Herbie has reported several comments made in the forums about whorehouses and pimps in CDO but left out the most notorious and cruel, Mike Mountstephen aka Spooks owner of the whorehouse Spooks. 
I won't join speculators and rumors about the reasons Herbie Gomez spared this brothel. To me, is because Mike spooks joined the  forum where Herbie read the comments in 2010, Herbie wrote his blog in 2009, so he couldn't have seen Spooks comments and saga as I reported later here   

No worries folks, justice has been served. This flamboyant pimp is now living on low profile mode. He left the day to day operations of the brothel  to his mamasang pretending that he's no longer the owner waiting for better days to resurface again. It won't happen folks. Unless over my body. The hit-man he is looking to hire better not miss his target because I can assure you I won't miss him...

But let's comment on what I just said a few sentences above about isolation and/or retaliation of those that if they are not with them are against them. 

A flagrant example about what I am claiming here is Brad Hughes, a former contributor to this blog living in Cagayan de Oro and used to be part of this group, until he realized that it wasn't to his taste and way of life.  
Here is what he said:

Ever since, his life has never been the same. Threat after thereat, massive threatening mails from Gordon Elletson and Mike Farrell. Read more about the story here.
Now, why Brad and his wife labeled the expats' wifes and GF cheap trash?
Folks, as usual, the answer lies in the photos  posted by the sexpats on their Yahoo group. Take a look on the photos above and below, all taken at spooks brothel and posted on the Yahoo group by their husbands- actually the majority are BF/GF, not married couples. Take a look on the photo below. That's what Brad is talking about..
 What's wrong with this picture? He (Brad) and his wife,  just didn't want she to be exposed on a Yahoo group album at Spooks together with these girls. No one wants, not even the Cinderellas you see there. Is their husbands or their BF for most that posted them, for reasons.... well... go figure....And if these are the most innocent take a look here. (Once there scroll the window down)

In closing, you prospective expat to CdeO you now have some information what to expect once enrolled to Mike Farrell, Mike Belter and Mike Spooks sexpat club.  Just recently, Mike Farrell has added some new articles to the constitution of this venerable institution. consisting of the definition who's considered a friend within the club. Click here to hear it right off the horse's mouth                

Oh, one more thing! Make sure your wife or GF goes regularly to the pampering salon and her nails match those of a newly elevated to the status of Cinderella and also never leave home without her jewelry because at any time she will be ordered  to pose for the picture like this below. 

Excuse me I got to answer this call:

Hello! who's this? Mike Farrell? Oh hi! Excuse me?.... The link to the new blog?
Ie right here:

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

A Rotary Governor's comments. Shame on him

People think, being a District Rotary Governor is a big deal. Some one important. This writer, a former Rotarian, tell you isn't so. Is just Mr. every one, some one that spends some time of his life doing community service for the purpose of helping others and at the same time helping himself as well.

Rotarians, in their majority are businessmen as I always was, The Rotary is known more as a social business relations club than a philanthropic org, where members join to show they are part of the "elite" , especially in the Philippines and the rest of the third world where the clubs are receiving far more than they contribute.

So being part is considered politically correct, helps build a positive image, be seen in various Rotary publications, some times read their name in the local press, are thanked for some rice and sardines distribution to indigenous population and schools, some free medications and school supplies. Folks, this is part of the marketing. At the end of the day the Rotarian is the one who benefit  more than the recipients.
 He got attention that brought  some business  and deals since he successfully built the reputation of giving back to the community a fraction of his profit.  As for Rotary's flag project THE POLIO ERADICATION PROJECT the org is trumpeting for years now, be informed that they contributed to just a fraction of what Governments and other real Philanthropist like Stan Brock from the REMOTE AREA MEDICAL ORGANIZATION  
have done.
Bill Gates has recently offered the Rotary Foundation $200 millions for the project , peanuts  comparing to the harm his investments have caused to  people's health in poor countries.Click to see it.

Now, you may wonder why a Rotary story is uploaded on this blog while all of you know that I have another site dedicated to this organization where I proudly served for 5 years?
Is because of a posting made by the Governor of the Rotary  District 3860 that covers the Visayas and part of Mindanao Rotary Clubs. Please, click here  to see the original thread with Governor's posting.

In his statement, the  District  governor made on a Yahoo discussion forum where the main animators are foreigners sexpats, is unusual. Even more unusual is the content of such posting that no one familiar with the Rotary would expect to read it there, even worst, the Governor's signed posting appears just below the name of a notorious pimp main actor of this Yahoo board created for providing information to future expats  in this town, but in reality is a facade of SPOOKS  brothel designed by a foreigner to lure foreigners to his place. This is Mike Mounstephen owner of the SPOOKS brothel in Cagayan De Oro.

But after self interrogation on the motives that prompted  the Governor to chose this place to comment the way he did, I concluded that no other place will welcome such a garbage  thrown by a Governor against decent Rotarians put on trial in Bohol by a couple of crooks former members of the Rotary Club of Tagbilaran. 

in effect, the Governor didn't say anything that infuriated me personally , provided that I am not expecting flowers from him after my stance  and comments on his district and his remark  that my opinions and writings do not necessary reflects the Rotary International and his district stand is an opinion that I fully respect and have never commented on.  But what outrages me is that the Governor chose to discuss the case "in person" with these low life members of this board, including Rotarian Mike Farrell, a notorious drunkard and dangerous when under the influence. Click and scroll the window to see his threatening mail.

Governor, anyone familiar with the case in Bohol will agree with me that your statement  "the squabble between the Rotary Club of Tagbilaran and the VAP group, which has reached the courts incidentally should be treated as a personal matter between the parties involved" is pure trash, is the statement of an incompetent governor lacking the skills and leadership, an irresponsible Rotarian that chose a place where the intellectual  capacity of the members of this group  to comprehend what this case is all about. Take a look on  pimp's Spooks comment just above yours. He doesn't have a clue of what you are  talking about and wants the transcripts of the court!! As for the member of this group, Jerry Lynch "who wants to open a Rotary club"(Sic) he thinks that one can open a club like you open a sari-sari store!.. Or a Spooks bar!. He will soon be on this wall of shame and you'll know everything about his affiliation with the ECLEO group and more.

Governor, the ignorant  you are addressing on this forum can buy anything they don't understand. But this won't be true for 10 thousands readers, Rotarians and none, around the world about to read your assertion that the trial going on in Bohol is a personal matter. Shame on you governor!.

The truth is that you, your predecessors Pavlito Padilla and Yumi Espina together with some foreigners Rotarians-terrorists. all former governors like you, including one representing the Rotary in the UN, have sacrificed the honor and integrity of a brilliant President and her husband, Prominent citizens on best standing in the community, who did the dirty job to kick out of the club the crooks, something it was your job. Today, you are adding insult to the injury by going to this forum where many of them are good friends of Chris Bennetts , this other Rotarian of your district that made history as a pornographer and women and children abuser.

Readers, for those of you interested about the Governor's statement of the trial in Bohol I have another site that I might rename it to "Rotary wall of shame" Rotarians are aware already and know that this is a ROTARY MATTER and not a PERSONAL MATTER.
You'll find everything you need in 5 pages, transcripts of testimony  and evidence submitted to the court, testimony of Rotarians against Rotarians, evrything to fully decorate a wall of shame..

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

A little break...

Readers, no, is not over. The team of Sexpats wall of shame has completed several updates on other indecent sexpats living within the community in Cagayan De Oro. 

 We will tell you who sexpat Mike Belter is that me and my sons  were waiting for his visit here in France but no where to be seen, we even checked the port of Cannes where the most luxury yachts  in the world  are docked this time of the year hoping the "unlimited finances available" guy might flock. Nothing!.. Then, we extended our search to Monaco, an hour driving from here. Nothing!.. Promises Promises Mike...

Anyway, just in case he got lost, and if you see him, please let us know, I'll be happy to send him directions to find the place. Here is how he looks, you can't miss the guy. 

We will tell you also about Tom Mcallaster who has never lived in Cagayan De Oro but he's more royalist than the king is, wondering why he's so active with this group. Is he a Sexpat? Sure he was, but thanks to his wife of third his age but thrice his brain, way more decent, intelligent and responsible than him convinced him to move to the US. Same for  Evangeline with her husband, my good friend Jack that she declared an all out war on him to leave the Phils sick and tired seeing him on the beer exchange places day in day out. We will tell you how they did it. Because these girls have nothing to do with Daisy's Cline chicks you see all over the internet on pictures taken either by Gordon Elletson or their husbands and boy friends and posted by them on their yahoo groups.

Back to Mike Belter, he is Mountstephen's, aka Spooks, owner of "Spooks whorehouse" in Cagayan de Oro best friend, about 35 but blends well with the ole farts most members of this group are. Of course, you don't have to be an ole fart to smell like an ole fart. All it takes is a Mike Belter look!...
(Did I try you enough?)

Now, one may ask why I call Mike Belter a sexpat? Because those living nearby  know him well and informed us about his behavior. For example, here is what some one close to him like Gordon Elletson (You can't get closer than that lol!!) had to say in his forum. And is only an "innocent" comment. Wait until the next update to read more.
(Did I try you enough?)

Ok Let Texkano tell us  a few words about you.

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Tom McAlaster was living in Tagbilaran Bohol where the purpose of his migration there was to get married with Myriam and live as an expat. He was 60 she 20. I sponsored him to join the Rotary Club of Tagbilaran, introduced him AND convinced the heads of the VILLAGE AIDE PROGRAM to take over the humanitarian programs I was in charge before my departure to France. He's now living in the US, with no hope whatsoever to comeback to the Phils other than a short visit. So why he got involved with this group in Cagayan De Oro?

I'll tell you when I come back after the elections in the Phils, feeling our readers and supporters are now preoccupied by the elections and the turbulence most likely will bring to an already shaken  political and financial situation.